I love my partner, and I know they love me too. But loving someone doesn’t automatically make the relationship healthy. Sometimes their behavior feels toxic. They can be rude or dismissive, and when that happens, what hurts most is that my feelings come second to theirs. Instead of reflecting on how they affect me, they focus on justifying their actions. We disagree on many personal things—how I dress, how I do my makeup, and who I spend time with, especially friends of the opposite gender. These things matter to me. I don’t want to give up what makes me happy just to keep them comfortable. When I stand my ground, they see it as disrespect, even though it’s simply me choosing myself. I understand feeling uncomfortable, but that doesn’t give them the right to control me or be angry at me for living my life. This is my body, my choices, and my headspace. Ive been upset any cryiung alot lately and they dont seem to care. its become a "norm" for me to cry. They js got used to it ig.

I feel like I don't fit anywhere. Is this a joke?!

i cant find a reason good enough to leave my relationship. its not awful just not brill. and i really think they could do better too. ideas?

Been dealing with a lot of drama and need to talk it out

my boyfriend who doent rlly counmt as a boyfriend cheats on me but tells me and i just let it happen because i have no self respect and want to feel loved!!! also my parnets have restricted my whole life because for fuck knows like i lied to them twice big deal sorry like at;east i admitted the lie my mums telling ,me i need to focus on work yet took my phone so i cant even update y wprk availibility of check my emails or messages and all the things i need to even keep my job so thats just great alli have is my shitbox laptoip whoich barley does anyting so yay me

I hate my marriage. I am beginning to strongly detest my apathetic and obese husband, whom everyone else seems to wanna fuck, considering how much they love to fucking defend him. I can’t wait until his gaslighting, hypocritical, judgmental, self-righteous ass enabling emotionally incestual racist ass bitch ass mother, dies from her fucking cancer. It will be the pain, he absolutely fucking deserves, for putting me through so much bullshit.

What do you do when your friend finds a dud

Do you know people that always look busy but never accomplish anything? Then you feel guilty cause you're trying to relax and they are over there sweeping the floor that isn't dirty

I am currently in an 7 year relationship with my boyfriend. My current issue is his family. I dont dislike them, I love them and enjoy their company. I have always done my best to get along with them and be respectful. My boyfriend had to move out recently since they had to move to houston, leaving my boyfriend here in dallas with me. He has been doing so good independently. He does live with his sister, which is also an issue in my opinion. Problem number 1- His sister always pays rent very late, He always has to cover for her, Often having to take out from his savings. She doesn't do her part at home such as cleaning up after herself or paying for her own groceries. They agreed before moving in tg that she would do her part, even claiming that it would be easy. Yet when shes suppose to be working i always catch her at home, skipping work. She could easily be paying rent as she has no other bills, But is letting all the responsibility fall under her brother. part 2 coming

People at the self-checkout were being rude and making fun of others—completely unacceptable behavior.

I got broken up with 5 mo ths ago and I'm still dealing with the after math. So what caused the breakup was intimacy which is weird since I didn't think that could happen before this, anyway. So what happened was *,his words* " we got too freaky" and basically he was a Christian and basically broke down into all this spiritual gargin and stuff. It even went as far as him telling his friends and his friends dad was there and he said " she's the devil! She's straying you away from God!" I don't know if I'm valid for still caring 5 months later but I do. I just hurt so bad when it happened and had no one to go to about it. What was worse is the whole time I wanted to help him but I knew I never could cause I've never determined with this kinda thing before and I also felt like I used him a little and was totally in the wrong. I do t know if I'll ever get over this. I loved him, and still do. I just feel so bad for pushing for something he couldn't give me. I felt like I forced him.

YAAAAYYY I DON'T HAVE A CRUSH ON THEM ANYMORE, THANK GOODNESS MY HEART FEELS LIGHTTTTT

I'm tired of needing to be like people to be liked. Nobody likes me and nobody wants to tell me why. I cry, every night. I buy cool clothes, try to find hobbys and try to keep up with people but everybody seems to forget me and flag me as annoying when i try. why can't I be like them? Why do I want to have friends? why can't I just be good with being alone forever??

Relationships are doomed nowadays partners dont want to cheat on their social media thirstrap girlfriends with their spouse.

I am tired of dealing with my narcissistic mother.

teacher abused me and my parents didnt want to say anything to anyone my grades have drop i feel everyday i cry

How the hell do single parents cope with toddlers? I've been alone for two days with our 2,5 year old, and I'm ready to give up already!

How come I get shit on things what she does as well!!??

They forgot our anniversary. I know it's just a date, but it feels like they forgot about us. Am I being too sensitive?

Family dinner turned into an argument about politics again. Why can't we just enjoy each other's company for once?